Help Us Plan our Wedding!

So, right now we are thinking about must-play songs at our wedding. This is one of the funnest parts of wedding planning for me. Tomislav and I like to be goofy and fun and we love to dance like crazy (see below). I have to send our DJ some of our music options soon so that we can make sure he has all the music we'd love to hear on our wedding night. Since we are having quite the international affair and have both love music from all over the world and in many different languages, we would love to get some suggestions for what should be on our must-play list! Specifically, we're thinking about our entrance song right now.

To give you an idea:

What can I say? We like to have fun! I'll never forget the first night T and I went out in Philly for some "American Dancing." Think: Booty shaking, bump 'n' grindin'
(No wonder he had a great time in America!)



 Sometimes we dance like this, especially because T-Slav is an incredible dancer.

But most of the time, I look like this. Usually making some kind of weird face

So...help us out!



As you can see, we are totally all over the place. It might be one of these or it might be something totally different. Any suggestions you have would be super helpful!

Problems you may face while planning an American/European wedding in Europe:

SAVE THE DATES: how to write the date! This is a serious concern because if you found the perfect save the date style that you love, but it only has room for writing the date with numbers (like 6/9/2012), the problem is that half of your guests will assume the wedding is in June and the other half will think it's in September!

GUEST LIST: With that comes the guest list, in general. It's so difficult to figure out who and how many people to invite. With us, we would obviously love all of our friends and family to attend but we understand with the very far travel, it's just not possible. Our venue is very small so we actually can't invite too many people, although we would like for them to be there. We just don't want anyones' feelings to get hurt or for them to feel rejected in any way but it's just hard. We also can't assume that people won't come because it's in Zagreb because who knows, maybe EVERYONE will come since Croatia is just that awesome :) I just want everyone to have our Save the Date because I'm proud of them and I think they're really cute.

MUSIC CHOICES: To circle dance or not to circle dance? I'm slowly but surely letting go of my childhood American wedding dreams and accepting that this is truly gonna be a Cro wedding: our style and its gonna be amazing! It's so hard to choose whether to have a band or DJ, although we'd really prefer a DJ but finding an English speaking, awesome and pumped up wedding DJ in Zagreb is proving to be difficult. Please let us know if you know of anyone!

Wedding planning isn't as easy breezy as you might think it is but through it all, we just keep reminding ourselves to not stress out and think about the important things, like that we will be married after the whole wedding is over. Thankfully T-Slav reminds me to take lots of deep breaths to calm down. I'm just excited to show my family Zagreb and to be T's wifey :)

P.S. The picture is from our wedding venue which is right on the Main Square in Zagreb so there's a fantastic view from the window behind me! Love it.